Has anyone else ever dealt with Tocophobia?

I am 9 months along and was recently diagnosed with Tocophobia. THe condition of the "Unnatural" fear of childbirth. My last son was born with his cord wrapped around his neck 4 times, a broken collar bone and failed his newborn testing. I am pregnant with my first daughter. My and my sister (God rest her soul) was born with birth defects, hers unfortuanley took her life. I am scared something will go wrong in the delivery room. SO I am looking for someone who HAS DEALT with Tocophobia and how they dealt with it.